Death is one of the most taboo subjects of conversation – ironically though, it’s one of the few things guaranteed to happen to all of us at some point. Of course, what tends to happen when somebody dies, is that a funeral or ‘celebration of their life’ will take place. But with emotions running high and loved ones grieving, planning the funeral is often the last thing people want to do.
So why not make things just that bit easier for your loved ones? Why not put a few plans in place before you die? Taking the time to plan ahead and ‘get your ducks in a row’, will not only provide immense relief to those close to you during a difficult time but also ensure your funeral wishes are respected.
Here, the team at Hughes Probate Services have put together a handy checklist, to help you with your planning. A top tip from us is to write down your answers, put them somewhere safe and let those close to you know you have done so. Make sure that key individuals are aware of your preferences and know where to find important documents and information related to your arrangements.
Remember, these might feel like difficult conversations now, but they really can make things a lot easier for your loved ones when you die.
Have you written a Will?
Have you considered what will happen to your possessions, assets and money when you die? It’s important that you make a Will, so you are in complete control of what happens to your belongings and money when you die. Plus, if you have a Will in place, it will help to prevent any unnecessary family disputes.
Do you have a Lasting Powers of Attorney?
Putting a Lasting Powers of Attorney in place will give you complete peace of mind that someone you trust is in charge of your affairs if you’re ever unable to make those decisions for yourself.
If you are 18 or older, then the earlier you can write a Will and put a Power of Attorney in place, the better. Make these decisions now, while you’re mentally able to, rather than leaving it too late.
Do you want to donate your tissues or organs?
Every year, hundreds of lives are saved thanks to the donated tissues and organs of those who have died. If you haven’t already registered on the organ donation website, your family will be asked whether they wish to donate your organs when you die (if this is possible at the time). It’s important that you make your wishes about organ donation known before this time comes.
You can register or amend your decision around tissues and organ donation via the NHS website.
What are your personal funeral preferences?
Your funeral should reflect your individual wishes and beliefs. Have a think about whether you’d prefer burial or cremation, and if you have any specific requests for the ceremony itself.
Some people opt for traditional religious services, while others may prefer secular or non-traditional gatherings. If you want to be cremated, then where do you want your ashes to be spread?
What personal touches should your funeral include?
Are there any personal touches you would like your funeral to include? Perhaps specific songs or sharing meaningful anecdotes – some people even choose to write their own obituary in preparation.
Ask yourself, is there anyone in particular you want to speak at your funeral? Do you want flowers or donations? And who should those donations go to?
Be prepared and make things easier for your loved ones when you die
Funeral planning is a very personal and meaningful process but one that allows you to take complete control of your end-of-life arrangements while providing comfort to your loved ones.
Use this blog as a guide to help you plan ahead, so you not only ensure that your wishes are honoured when you die but the loved ones you leave behind are supported. If you would like to speak to a professional who can support you with creating a Lasting Powers of Attorney then contact Hughes Probate Services. As a trained grief counsellor, you can have peace of mind that all conversations around dying and funerals will be handled sensitively.
